Gemini in Love

Gemini in Love 
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Gemini is the mutable air  sign ruled by the planet Mercury and that describes much of their lively and  thought oriented approach to love. They treasure being mentally captivated,  excited and dynamically active and the mates they choose tend to be friends,  first and foremost, and lovers second. 

Being able to share and discuss  new thoughts, new ideals and everything they conceive and learn is an important  quality they need to have in place within a relationship.

This is the  talkative, communicative sign and their minds are constantly sifting through  information. As such they often speak before they think and their words, usually  not intended to hurt, can fall flat when they fail to carry through on an intention or promise.

A lover often feels left behind and unimportant as the Gemini discovers a fascinating new subject or person to explore and words from the past become empty and hurtful.

At their best, however, a Gemini  lover is the most fascinating, joyful and enjoyable partner of the zodiac. When  that is backed up by their own feelings of wholeness and completeness (often the  very thing they are seeking from a partnership) they are dynamic and loyal  mates.

Gemini Sexuality: 
Sex is a  mind voyage for most Gemini's and they experience the height of their passion  through their thoughts and what the feelings mean to them. They are open  minded and experimental ,yet not necessarily driven by passion to try out the  new techniques and adventures, but more out of the hungry curiosity that propels  them to simply...discover something.

They bring their wit and laughter  directly into the bedroom and can be disheartened(and even shocked) that their  partners may not always go along with their ever present sense of humor. Their  lust and their needs tend to come and go with speed and suddenness and they can  turn off as quickly as they turn on. Gemini's seldom wait for anyone and that includes a lover who takes a little more time to feel stimulated.

The long term story:
Gemini's need friendship and companionship and a partner who can share their mind explorations and journeys as deeply as they need a lover and heart mate.

They generally need someone who is secure or open enough to not feel threatened by their quickly changing interests or whole hearted experiments but one who can also help them ground out to penetrate one of their intrigues in  depth.

Because Gemini is a dual sign they often project part of them when  they are attracted to a mate and the relationship becomes an external way for them to work towards their merging of their two very different sides. This polarity creates an intriguing and exciting spark in the beginning of the relationship but can burn out once the Gemini has 'owned' up to its other half or has grown bored and retreated back within self.

Positive Traits in Love:
Joyful, good natured, broad minded, experimental, radiant, friendly,enthusiastic, flexibility, gentleness.

Negative traits:
Unreliability,fickleness,duality,insincerity,self focus,restlessness,critical and  temperamental.

What a Gemini likes:
Intellectual  stimulation, ideas and thoughts, new trends to investigate,friends and  socializing, talking, sharing ideals. learning, Upbeat,lively mates.

What a Gemini Dislikes:
Routines and ruts, feeling ignored, being confined, apathy, being the one to make all the decisions, slowness, being directed.

Gemini Love Keywords:
Friendly,  mind oriented, spontaneous, verbal, joyful, experimental,open minded, enthusiastic.